'Uniquely' me (Part 2)

And so the topic continues...

I'm UNIQUE 2 (too) !


And here it goes :

1. I love eggs so much tt I always have them almost everyday... (Almost 2-3 eggs/day! The fact abt high cholestrol never stop me since young =P )
2. Whenever I'm home, I always listen radio (Hi-Fi) at bedtime til sleep... & wake up the next day still listening... (Maybe I hope to hear some music in my dreams too. Or I hope not to sleep in fear when room alone at dark. Actually, I'm simply addicted to music in my life, esp when alone!)
3. I hate scary movies! (Well, I'm not even interested if anyone is giving me a treat for any horror show. But, I dare to watch scary cartoons! hehe)
4. Usually, I washes my hair once every 3 days... unless I really nothing to do. (Cos it seems boring, actually lazy enough to wait for my long hair to get dry.... Lazy to use hairdryer.)
5. I dun like to wear sleevesless clothes for years. (Cos I dun like to show off my fatty arms in public!)
6. I like to wash my hands often. (During my office hrs of touching some papers or files, I like to visit the washroom JUST TO WASH HANDS only... Or even just reaching home, I would always go to toliet and wash my hands 1st before doing any other things.)
7. I love taking photos with my camera. (Including food. Just one reason, cos they also have very nice sexy colours too! But I had no choice but to stop taking photo of it when someone stops me...) And hor, I love taking many lovely pictures while I'm still YOUNG. Those must be only memories of my smile. It's not easy to remember when u had last smiled, u noe? Dun you agree there's so many beautiful things ard you everyday??
8. I SUPER love to sing. (Sing & sing... not becos I think I can sing well, but just becos I have a strong passion in singing. I even like singing CNY songs during Chinese New Year, I like singing xmas songs during Christmas, I like singing SG songs during National Day... etc etc.. )
9. I always put on make-up whenever outside for more than 1hr. (Including going swiming, or sweating out lata etc etc... Just becos I dun feel like going anywhere else, without any minimum make-up!)
10. (a) I cries easily. (Just try shouting @ me & dun you regret after tt!!! ) (b) BUT, I also smile easily when someone offers me a beer or a glass of red wine... (LoLz!)

Ok Ok! Enough of my weird habits OR secrets....

Many more to list but it's bedtime already...

But as like most horror movies says;

"Know Lesser & You'll Live Longer."

And that's all, folks~ Beep Beep!!

Lesson Learnt Once Before About Friendship...

We are sometimes forgetful.
Forgetful about...

"Oh shit! I have two appointments on the same time same day!"

Ya, now nearer to the date and then remembered abt it...
HOW NOW?!
So, NOW HOW?
Eh... choose one gp and say "sorry" to the other?....

It's always easier to choose an more impt event 1st, say family dinner or beloved's BD or company dinner or some impt event... and then hope the other gp understand... Rite?

BUT, wat if it was the SAME "outing reason"??

Truthfully, I make this mistake once before. Ms Pig scolded me on the phone abt wat she was angry about my choice. I had already agreed to meet up with Ms Pig and her gang for gals gathering... and somehow completely I forgot abt it!!! Ya lah, I then also agreed to meet another gp of friends. Few days lata when Ms Pig reminded me about the gathering, in my mind was flashed with....

"Siao liao~ crashed on same day!!! How how? Aiya... must decide FAST to confirm which one... esp Ms Pig now on the line. I'll better tell her now."

With my very small braincells, I decided to "sorry" abt not attending the gals' gathering. Why? Cos I was thinking that this lovable gp of gals have been so many years with me. Maybe more understanding... and won't angry about last min had to "fly plane"... That's wat people usually says, you always very chin-cai with the closer ones and be polite to less-closer ones... (E.g. I easier to throw tempers to own family or closer ones, and "endure" the other.) Sort of taking the group who dote me for granted maybe... Eh, dunno how to explain lah... That kinda feeling loh. Or should I say I SCARED of the other gp who will be saying me "Bo steady... Wah liu... very wet blanket leh!" or just simply ignore me!

Ya lah, the moment I told Ms Pig that I couldn't make it suddenly, and of cos she wanted to noe WHY. Then I told her, I got also another frds' outing on the same day. She was totally pissed off! She's not angry about my forgetfulness, but about my choice.

"Wah liu!!! We not ur frds meh? How could you? You promised me long ago liao. Eh hello?! We asked you 1st leh. Okie, you have fun loh. Go on. You GOOD! Bye bye!"

I faster called her back and apologised. I started to realise something from there. I think I had really took them for granted. I shouldn't scared about the other group angry and not fearing the closer ones angry with me. Ya, true enough. They asked me 1st. And I promised them earlier. I knew that for a "pre-asked" appointment that was asked out long ago was much MORE SINCERE than a last-min appointment for a same outing reason.

After all, to me, a last min appointment is like...

"Oh... you got ntg to do for the day, start thinking of anyone who can accompany you?!"

From then, I appreciate more to friends who ask me out EARLIER. It's never easy to be an organiser anyway! From then, I started to see how much I mean as a friends to others too. Lesson learnt.

If some of my frds ever knew that actually there were times which I was really disappointed that one called for an last min outing, but I replied fast. I said okie... cos I was free. BUT after an hour, he/she confirmed to cancel the outing, cos the others can't make it. I felt that my presence ain't any importance at all unless there was this one frd who also "need" to be free to this outing. Since then, I immuned to this kinda of reaction... No longer felt some importance to this kinda friendship. It's more like a "have fun together and dun think so much", or rather just a "purely more than 3-pp outing only". There was nothing more closer since then...

Still remember a yr ago... I sincerely asked XX out for a dinner on my BD nite a mth ago. A wk lata, she said that she got a frd's BD too, can't join me for the dinner. I was then depressed... Cos I also BD that nite mah! Til I told her how I felt... which maybe slipped off her mind like wat I did to Ms Pig. I really touched that she decided to postpone celebrating her frd's BD and joined me for my BD dinner. At least I knew I wasn't an "extra" frd bah! Lolz~

Then then a week ago... we had this outing. YY agreed to have this small gathering dinner. Til a day before the gathering, when I started email to remind everyone. But alas... YY told me tt she might not make it to the gathering dinner, cos of playing a sport with other gp of frds. Well.... I was saddened that she forgotten abt the "date" and then even when last min she remembered abt it, but the fact that she din reject the "sportive group". The next day morning when she confirmed not attending... then I Zzz.. gave up hope on showing any angry face. Anyway, I really had a bad day at work already. Until the very last min, YY decided to join us for the dinner and not going for the sport... I started to tell her how I felt earlier one, and she was expecting it actually... hahaha... Glad that this dinner still a good and happy ending one. Glad that I still got some importance in her friendship... hurhurhur...

Well, maybe I was setting myself some standards for friendships... and maybe petty,...

But every actions that I or frds ard me do mean smtg to me;
OR we actually somehow might tends to take each other for granted...
After all, it was my sweet little Ms Pig for enlightening me in the very 1st place also lah~ Hahaha...

And since then, I became more senstive to most of my friendships...

If I were to choose an ability, I hope NOT to be forgetful...
After all, it also feels terrible to last min "fly plane" to ANY groups of my frds.

Do we NEED to be in love?

Well, nope.

But most of the time, we just WANT to be in love with a rite person!

It's not about of SHARING happiness to be happier @ saddness to be less-depressed.

It's all about a good companion til the rest of ur life.

• Someone who would listen to my nagging most of the time and be a "pillow" when I'm down.
• Someone who go through many NEW & INTERESTING stages of life ahead.
• Start a small family of my own...
• Going supermarket more often than shopping centre....
• Plan $$$ more better than before...
• Learn to do (more) housework!
• Wife Role? Motherhood? or even Mother-in-law many years lata? LoLz~
  

It will ONLY be, if you wanna make ur life getting more fruitful, mysterious and challenging!

It's somewat friends might not be able to go thr with you ALL the time.
Cos eventually, more & more priorities are setting up for growing adults as time goes by.

Of cos, I would choose to be single than to end up with a wrong person.
And that's why I believe that not everyone has to be attached.
It's always better to take some time to wait for a right one.
It's all about luck and fate.
Life is like a gamble, isn't it?

Imagine having so many failed r/s and being hurt for countless times....
Or to choose remain to be single and feeling much lesser troubled by wrong guy?
So, noone need to be in love.

However ms PIG used to tell me; most ppl dun need to be in love BUT I need to.

'cos to her,
I won't get used to live my life alone & I can't be independent.

and to her,
I need a disciplinary "principal" & someone who can make a crybaby smile most of the time.

Funny sia!!! But it's true maybe... Thanks for hinting me ar! *kok*

If I CAN choose a lover for me, I would choose Tony Leung (粱朝伟)... cos he's so cool + smart + super yandao + humorous! But of cos, if I were to choose a suitable bf for me, it will still be Woody loh. So, stop dreaming! haha~

A special topic that I always wanted to tok about, but dare not to say out yet... until NOW!!!

The special topic is... *ahem*
Wat's the thing that could ALWAYS happen in ur life,
yet you HATE it to happen (so much)!!!

Well, I can list my main TOP-10 hateful happenings :

1. NO toilet papers when I need it.... (Imagine you are outside and suddenly stomachace, yet you don't have tissue paper with you... and not ALL public toliets have toliet paper... Shit man!)
2. Bian-Bian DURING the period of my "relative" existence. Why? Imagine no matter how you gonna wipe clean, it's still... Eeeee! I hate that sight~ (Argh... Sometimes, I do really hope I can have constipation for those 3-4 days... But it never seems to occur so far in my life leh...)
3. Making "big business" at public toilet. Uncomfortable mah~ (There's no place like home!)
4. Trying to make my buttock breathe-in deeply inside a lift, when "inspiration" comes. (You noe lah, when the urge suddenly come, it's not easy to make it soundless PLUS odourless infront of ppl! Otherwise, let me know how you do it then!)
   
5. Anyone's tone LOUDER than me... (Yet some din realise that in fact, they are scaring me at that moment~)
6. Seeing someone within my sight, finishing their own food YET leaving behind a egg yolk on the plate. (Basket! That's the MOST wasteful delicacy!!! Its cost price was 50cents per egg once before, okie?!)
7. Clothes are getting MORE tight-fitting... (But it wasn't not suppose to be when I 1st bought them!)
8. Gertting up in the middle of my dreams just becos I'm having high tide... can't endure!!! A 15sec walk to my bathroom in ZZzz mood... Boring!!
9. Nose getting really very itchy inside, but trying hard NOT to dig it in public...
10. Going for ktv soon, yet throat SUDDENLY getting itchy and sore alittle...(Waste my $$$!)
    

Hurhurhur... Wat's urs then? :P

If I were to choose the MOST hateful of the hateful stuffs (as above) , my answer is number... ONE, of cos!!!

Eh, who likes to wear shitty panty ar?! LoLz~~~

一件让我心酸的事

Wish to be born in rich families?? Envy them? Think again!

My dad was driving me (on his mini bus) to work one day and driving passed a frd's house (those 2-storey executive flat) in hougang too. He mentioned abt this frd, Auntie X who used to join him & my mum to genting trip together last yr and the yr before. She was quite a wealthy lady, with 2 sons and a daughter who moved out having their own (BIG) house as well.

But then... recently, Auntie X had a body check-up and found out that she was suffering from cancer, somemore it's like a terminal stage!
And that was NOT the worst news at all, okie?! Now, I tell you why.

Her doctor already "predicted" for her that she might not last very long. And becos of that, her eldest son is now fighting her fortune with the youngest son! Her daughter (being a female, and the middle position) did not fight with them. I guess the eldest son must have said out something abt the will thing in front of the youngest son one day, and led into this kinda quarrelings over wealth. The 2nd daughter (if I were her) just let it be, as she won't win the "battle" anyway. Anyway, it's good that she's not joining in the "battle" to hurt her mum's heart deeper...

Eh, see here! Their mother is dying soon and two sons of hers are fighting over the family property now! To think if this auntie X is telling my dad all these, her heart must have already bleeding alot and her tears must have run dry. A mother who bore 3 kids and raised them up until so big also not easily. But becos they were "spolit & blinded" by money, they still never and will never realised that their mother is leaving the world SADLY not becos of cancer suffering, but with a broken heart with some regrets...

I felt really very sad to hear abt this from my dad and feel sadder when I'm writing it here now.

A TRUE human nature will be revealed in front of money, isn't it?

If I were Auntie X, I rather donate the $$$ to charity to make my sons learn that "Money can be earned, but 子育养而亲不在". I believe that they will have their 报应 one day!!!